The Ladies Book of Etiquette

From The Ladies Book of Etiquette and Manual of Politeness (1860) by Florence Hartley:

In preparing a bridal outfit, it's best to furnish the wardrobe for at least two years in under-clothes and one year in dresses, though the bonnet and cloak suitable for the coming season are all that are necessary as the fashions in these articles change so rapidly.

Avoid, as intensely vulgar, any display of your position as a bride whilst traveling.

I hope Ms. Hartley doesn't get the WE Channel in heaven.